Understanding Intercrural Sex
When we think of sex, we often envision intercourse, specifically anal or vaginal penetration. However, there’s a different practice that doesn’t involve penetration, known as intercrural sex. Also referred to as thigh sex, intercrural sex involves placing the penis between a partner’s thighs and thrusting for pleasure or orgasm, according to Lee Phillips, Ed. D., a psychotherapist and certified sex and couple’s therapist.
Historical Context
Intercrural sex has a rich history, dating back to Ancient Greece. The term was first introduced by K. J. Dover in his book “Greek Homosexuality,” published in 1978. This work delves into homosexual relationships in Ancient Greece, highlighting social norms and cultural ideologies. In these times, anal sex was associated with social status and dominance, where being the receptive partner was viewed as submissive. Intercrural sex provided a way to navigate these societal norms.
Modern Perspectives
Today, while anal sex may not be considered shameful, there are still reasons why some may prefer intercrural sex. Queer sex educator Gabrielle Kassel points out that friction from thighs offers a unique sensation that can be exciting. Whether thighs are hairy or smooth, they contribute to a distinct experience, as explored on Localfucksite.net. Intercrural sex can also be preferable during times of discomfort, such as a gastrointestinal flare-up, or for individuals who find vaginal penetration unsuitable due to conditions like endometriosis or after childbirth.
Health Considerations
Intercrural sex is generally considered a lower-risk sexual activity in terms of STI transmission compared to oral, anal, or vaginal sex. It has been used as a method to prevent the spread of HIV since there’s no anal or vaginal penetration involved.
Preferences and Misconceptions
Some gay men, referred to as “sides,” prefer intercrural sex over anal penetration. Joe Kort, Ph. D., a Sex and Relationship Therapist, explains that these individuals enjoy this type of sexual activity without engaging in anal penetration. Despite limited studies, anecdotal evidence suggests that intercrural sex is not uncommon.
There’s a common misconception that sex must involve penetration. However, Kassel emphasizes that any meaningful act of pleasure, whether solo, partnered, or with multiple partners, can be considered sex.
Practical Insights
For those interested in exploring intercrural sex, starting with foreplay by rubbing thighs against the partner’s genitals can be stimulating. For maximum pleasure and comfort, using silicone or oil-based lube is recommended to reduce friction and prevent rashes. Various sexual positions can enhance the experience, such as missionary, spooning, doggy style, and cowgirl. The key is to place the penis between the partner’s thighs, using their thighs to grip and create friction before thrusting.